Men Don't Marry Hoochies!

I was talking to a friend of mine about marriage and relationships. He expressed his frustration about how delusional some females are when it comes to men. He on all accounts has had more than his fare share of women and is seeing a young lady who is on her way to becoming a physician. She is probably one of the only women he has dated that I actually like.

At any rate, he said, "Buffy the Body will never get married. She looks like sex." And went on to say that while men will entertain the ghetto divas and even sleep with them, when it comes to settling down, they are far from marriage material. Look at Luke, the biggest player of them all, Mr. Pop That Coochie himself married a cool, calm, collected lawyer named Kristin Thompson. Kristin is not some big booty, weave wearing, coochie poppin' chick from the hood, she's an intelligent, educated woman who looks more like a soccer mom than the wife of Mr. Doo Doo Brown.

Women need to understand, yes, you can get a man with your body, but you heart and mind will keep him. No man wants to be thought of as an "opportunity", and a lot of younger women in particular have that misconception. They think that being loud, sexy, and vulgar will get the man. Yeah, it'll get a man, but it may not be the kind you want. Men are visual, so indeed they are going to look at your behind if it's big, your breasts if they're sticking out, and anything else you want to display. But the infatuation with your looks isn't going to last long (unless the man is insecure or shallow) and eventually he'll get bored with you.

Men love to be stimulated mentally and physically. A women who is smart and sexy gives them a rush like no other. Even if they complain (like they do), most would rather have a good argument and make love to you afterward. Men want to know how we feel and what we think, it's all in the approach. And of course men want to feel needed. It lets them know we actually care about them. (LOL) As if all we do isn't enough already.

Being a simple bish is not cute. Drinking, smoking, and being loud will not get you anywhere. Beauty, brains, and subtle sexiness will. Having an opinion matters. And while you may not need to know how to cook, you should offer some food for thought.