Eva the Diva to Marry Her Prince Charming!

Congratulations to Eva the Diva and the homie Lance Gross on their Christmas engagement. Lance and Eva are a great pair and their astrological signs (Cancer and Scorpio) are a great match!!

How to Make (And Stick to) New Year's Resolutions

Every year I make a list of things I want to achieve and things I need. Over the course of the year I may get off track and forget half of the things I vowed to do. But I have learned over the last several years that to keep my resolutions, I have to create a realistic list. The best thing you can do when trying to achieve certain goals is to make sure they are reasonably attainable. Here's a few tips on making your list of resolutions and keeping them:

1. Start out with 5 realistic resolutions. If you work hard on 5 things you want or need, you have a better chance of achieving them.

2. Reward yourself for reaching a milestone. Say you're a real estate agent and you set out to sell three homes a month. By mid month you've sold one, and have another under contract. Celebrate, because you 1/3 of the way to achieving your goal. Whether you buy a new pen or treat yourself to a new pair of Louboutins, recognize your accomplishments.

3. Surround yourself with like-minded people or people who can help you. When you surround yourself with positive people, you feed off their energy. Good energy produces good energy. Period.

4. Don't try to do it all. You can only take on so much. I have a habit of trying to do too much so my goal for '09 is to take a breather and accomplish small tasks. For example, my most important goal for '09 is to publish my second book. I'm such an over analyzer, I put doing so off for a few years. I vow to publish at least one of my upcoming three books this coming year.

5. Enjoy your accomplishments but don't stop there. Once you achieve a goal, move on to the next. Don't linger on one goal. There is work to be done!

Rihanna Reps the new Gucci Tattoo Heart Collection

Exquisite, elegant, and sexy, Rihanna is the new spokesmodel for the Gucci Tattoo Heart Collection. The new line of handbags features python, tattooed heart patchwork, white leather trim and gold hardware. Twenty-five percent of the proceeds will benefit UNICEF. Gotta love that Gucci!

The bag shown retails for $4590 (pull out the platinum for this one baby) and is sold in Gucci Boutiques and high-end department stores.

10 Great Gifts to Give Anyone

Shopping for those near and dear to us is often a daunting task. After all, you can only buy so many watches, colognes, sweaters, and body washes to give as gifts. The key to successfully selecting a gift is all about knowing what the recipient likes. Too many times people buy gifts based on what they like, and not what the person wants. Take a hint and observe, sometimes the signs are there. If all else fails, select one of these disappointment-proof options!

1. Magazine subscriptions. For people who enjoy reading magazines, a gift subscription is ideal. You simply fill out the subscription card, put your name as the sender, pay the invoice and that's it. A no-fuss gift solution even for the pickiest person on your list. There has to be something they enjoy reading about!

2. Airline gift cards. Unless they are scared of flying, most people can appreciate a gift card they can used toward airline tickets. With all of the fees and surcharges airlines charge nowadays, a gift card can make all the difference.

3. Charitable donations. For the good Samaritan on your list, consider making a donation to their favorite charity on their behalf. Not only will you make them happy, your donation will go towards something good and useful, and it's a gift that keeps on giving.

4. A journal. A journal may seem like a copout gift, but a lot of people like to write in journals. Some may even use it to write that novel they've been procrastinating on. Select a journal to match their personality and you can't go wrong.

5. An engraved or personalized gift. Who doesn't love to see their name or initials on something? Buy a gift you can personalize and it'll mean twice as much to the recipient. Monogrammed towels, a personalized jewelry box, or money clip are just a few gifts you can personalize.

6. A CD or Movie. Buy a gift from their favorite artist or get their favorite movie on DVD and watch their face light up. I'm a huge music fan, so I would enjoy receiving a CD, and the James Bond 007 series wouldn't hurt either...Just kidding.

7. Candles. Candles are the perfect gift. They can light up a room and add a nice touch to almost any environment. Choose nice scents that are fragrant enough to set a mood and not too overpowering.

8. A gift card. Gift cards are quite popular and a reasonable solution if you simply can't decide what to get some one. American Express and Visa gift cards are extremely popular and you can use them just about anywhere.

9. A great book. Books are forever, and they are great for inspiration, fun, or entertainment. They are perfect for kids or adults and there's hundreds to choose from!

10. Tickets to a special event. If your loved one has been dying to go to a special concert or event, surprise them with tickets. Often times people don't take time out to enjoy life, this small gesture will be worth their weight in gold!

No matter what you buy, put your heart into. While a gift may seem simple to you, it could mean the world to someone else. Happy Holidays!

Great, Fun, Cheap First Dates...Or any date!

Not sure what to do on your first date? Need some new ideas for your already thriving relationship? Sometimes it's the simple things that mean the most. You can have a good time without breaking the bank or going overboard. Here's a few simple dates that will make everybody happy!

Bowling. Bowling is not only fun, it's inexpensive and great exercise. Lucky Strikes at the Staples Center in Downtown L.A. has a great bowling alley, complete with a full bar and dinner menu. Games average around $6.95 a piece; entrees are around 8.95.

The Movies. Who can't enjoy a good flick? The movies is not only fun, it's relaxing. You can kick back, enjoy some hot buttered popcorn with a Coke and Rasinets with your date and laugh, cry, or scream to your hearts content.

Pool. So you're a lousy pool player, join the club. Pool is fun once you get the hang of it, and asking a guy to help you learn will make him feel all cool and macho. If you're a skilled player, it can be a lot of fun. Whatever the case, it's better in twos.

A Concert. Concerts can be exciting because the music will move you and bring ambiance. Music moves the soul and depending on the type of music it is, it just may bring you closer to your date. If it's a first date, go for something upbeat, that way you won't feel awkward when all the lovers in the house or swooning all over each other.


An outdoor fair or market. Visit different vendors, shop for brunch or just enjoy the day. Farmer's markets are a popular fete in California and they provide great opportunities to try new foods, sample products, or simply have a great conversation.

Game night at a friends. Join another couple and pull out the Monopoly, Scrabble, or Taboo games. Game night is a simple, inexpensive opportunity to get to know someone better. If you don't like board games, try cards or dominoes. Just make sure you have the snacks and something to drink!

First dates should be fun and simple. The goal is to get to know that person better or simply just enjoy each others company. Whatever date you choose, just makes sure you go at it with an open mind and an open heart. You never know what might happen!

How to be the Perfect Party Guest

Clink, clink! The holiday parties are about to begin. Before you head to your next bash, take some to find out how to be the perfect party guest.

Dress for the occasion. Nothing says class like someone who follows directions. If the invitation says cocktail attire, opt for a chic dress or dressy slacks. Whatever you do, don't show up in jeans or some other form of inappropriate attire. You will stand out, but it won't be in a good way.

Bring the host a gift. A bottle of wine, a candle, or some other small gift will make your host feel special. While it's not required to bring a gift to a party, it is a nice gesture and it does set you apart from the rest of the crowd.

Be on your best behavior. The best guests are well-behaved guests. Don't over indulge in alcohol, don't flirt with someone else's husband, and don't touch anything! You are there to enjoy yourself and so is everyone else, eat drink and be merry, and try to avoid gossip and politically incorrect conversations. It's a party for goodness sake!

Mingle. Even if you're there with someone, it won't hurt to be friendly and strike up a conversation. I've gone to some parties where I didn't know anyone and left with new friends. It's all about the people.

Don't wear out your welcome. In other words, don't linger. Once the party is over, most hosts want to clean up and get to bed. If you aren't going to help with clean up, don't stick around. It is gracious to leave the party when it's over, worrisome to stay past the fifteen minute after mark.